Not every Critic’s criticism matters.

“Good critics are very rare, so handle them with care.” 

Why is it so important to be able to do everything and be there everywhere? Even after trying hard and keep running the whole day there are things that remain undone and trust me, that matters. A solution to this is prioritizing the things, but what when things you want to do and things you are doing are not in sync? 

    Sorry I am sounding so weird and talking not so wow things here but that is true, I mean almost everyone comes across a point in their life where they think, things are not working as they planned or thought and start questioning about things they do, their willingness to do those things, why such things bothers them?, until when to let such things affect us?, how will the situation change? and lot more… 

    Now even in such state we know the answer, answers of each and every question, but somewhere something is not perfect and we cannot accept those answers and keep searching for them or want those answers to be answered by someone really important or the CRITIC. 

    The CRITICs are very vital in all of our lives, they are someone who comprehends how to influence us with something, taking care of our emotions, not letting us think low or feel down. In the above-mentioned situations deep down, we want our critics to tell us what is right – deep down we always expect them to tell us things we want to listen, but a CRITIC is someone who says truth. 

    Critic is someone who is a great observer. Now it depends on the relation – relation that you share with them – to tell them that they are the critics of your life, I mean not every critic criticizes without asking. Your critic can be anyone from your friends or family in fact everyone is a critic when judging someone else’s life. But the point here is whose criticism matters. 

    Yes, you need to limit the critics of your life, and again wisely. The one who is a critic may not sound indulgent in the beginning and you may also feel he is not supporting you, but NO, he is the one who actually wants you to be happy and successful. There may also come time when you start avoiding your critics because their opinions are true but you expect to listen comforting and soothing stuffs from them and not the truth. “Good critics are very rare, so handle them with care.” 

    If you can relate this to someone in your life, you are really lucky!!! You are lucky because this people won’t let you down, whatever happens. Be really really grateful for having them. Even I am lucky in this matter and I am very grateful for having them. At times they sound really hard but if I can do whatever they said - word to word-, I will definitely be able to get out of the maze. With this note I would end here, hope my critics criticizes this blog too. Waiting for your “Vishesh Tipni”.